We all have a few pet peeves that we can’t stand about our significant other. But as it turns out, men seem to share a few of these attributes that most women just can’t stand. Now, I must warn you. This knowledge can be very useful. You can either avoid these habits, which would be great for your relationship, or you can use these habits to kill your relationship. Your choice. You’ve been warned.
- You think your way is the only way – Men seem to love themselves so much that they think their opinions are the only ones that matter. We think that our way is best, and we get frustrated when our ladies do things another way. Want to kill your relationship quickly? Keep telling her she’s doing it wrong when she doesn’t do something your way.
- You call her too much - Some guys (probably you) don’t know how much to call her. Here’s a hint: if you are calling her multiple times a day, and your conversations aren’t that interesting, and she seems to be doing things, but you keep calling, that’s probably too much. Here’s another hint: If she seems to keep asking “what’s up?” or “why are you calling?” you should probably take the hint.
- You talk too damn much – I’m guilty of this one as well. I don’t know what it is, but I just love to be part of the conversation. Sometimes we talk more than we think, and for our ladies this can be a real problem. Here’s a way to tell if you have a problem: if you find yourself waiting to say what you want to say next rather than listening to what she’s saying, you need to reevaluate your talking…
- Laundry next to the laundry hamper – It’s amazing how often our clothes can get so close to the laundry hamper without making it into it. For me personally, laundry can find it’s way to all sorts of places, but rarely is it in the hamper. Stop being a bum and get your laundry in the hamper.
- You ignore her when you’re watching TV - In her mind, nothing on TV is so important that it’s worth neglecting your relationship for. Not even the game!
- You correct her in front of people – One thing that really gets on her nerves is when you correct her in front of people. It’s degrading, embarrassing, and insulting. If you value her, you should refrain.
- You comment about other women – She knows you look. Heck she looks. But you don’t need to say anything about it, and you definitely shouldn’t stare. It’s offensive to your lady and the woman you’re looking at.
- When you say you’re “fine” and you aren’t – She know’s you aren’t fine, you know you aren’t fine, and yet you tell her you’re fine. She can’t stand it. Just talk it out instead of acting like it’s all good when it isn’t.
- Your old T-shirts - You’re in your twenties now, and those hilarious t-shirts are no longer funny. Unless you’re cool with being the “Michael Cera” of your group, it’s time to upgrade to some solid colored tees, and v-neck would be even better than regular tees.
- You compare her to other women (like your mother) – She’s not your mother and she’s not her friend/your coworker/(insert other woman here). It’s pretty damn rude to compare her to them. Take your woman as she is, or get out of the relationship. Simple as that.
So there you go. 10 things she can’t stand about you. Stop doing these and your relationship will probably improve instantly. Start doing these and your relationship will probably crash and burn. Just letting you know. Use this information with caution.
